I’m fairly simple…
I don’t require nonstop attention, materialistic items, or for you to bring me everywhere and show me off; I want you to do it because you’re proud to me called my boyfriend.
I don’t expect you to put me first, even ahead of you; I want you to willingly do so because you love me enough to live by the philosophy, “if my girl’s happy then I’m happy.”
I require minimal attention, but enough so I never have to question whether or not you love me and only me. It’s not a trust thing; it’s a “show me” kind of thing.
I expect you will always treat me as your best friend, wanting to do everything and bring me everywhere and come everywhere with me over or with your friends.
I don’t need you to say “I love you” every time we leave each other or every time we get off the phone; I want you to want to say it because you like having me know that’s the last thing I’ll hear before we go.
You don’t need to say “sorry” every time, even when you’re not wrong, but when I filter myself to avoid confrontation, I expect open dialogue and hasty resolution.
I cater to the man who is smart enough to treat me equally if not with more love and respect than I have for him. But do not mistake my kindness and selflessness for naivety. I demand respect where respect is due.
I’m not your typical girl because will never have to change who I am to be with someone. I am by no means a princess or some kind of royalty that places herself on a high pedestal with some self-righteous rant on how guys need to bow before me. I’m a girl plain and simple, but I’m fucking awesome. And if some silly immature boy can’t see that he will never find another
girl person as light-hearted, witty, spontaneous, down to earth, and easy going as me, then I care nothing for him.
I’m not your typical girl, because I choose to be me. I’m loyal, confident, independent, hard working, good looking, fun, smart, and awesome…and I choose to recognize it. You either get with it or get over it because there are plenty of fish in the sea and they all have eyes on me.